He called me his sweetie today. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I didn't ask, but he wrote it down for me too. I was joking with him about a good friend of mine earlier. I help care for her 7 children and her husband is one of those Alpha male, military officer types. I told him Mindy and I were forming something like an odd poly situation (minus the me EVER joining the family) and that caring for her 7 would test me for his dreams since he wants 3-5. Mindy is making a room for me at their house for when she needs me late or overnight, we are going to start working out together, and planning more girl's nights.
He told me to make sure I let Mindy know I'm already in a relationship. He took down his searching ads and let folks know he's dating. He wrote " I am currently dating a wonderful woman. .....I met a quality young woman that K and I are dating exclusively...." He cuddles to a beautiful woman (K) every night who he adores and passionately loves, but he seemed a little jealous of me. I'm not the slightest bit jealous him with of K. I am more attracted to him because of the way he treats her, speaks almost reverently of her, and goes out of his way to make her feel special. He says helping K and I become best friends is his major goal and that whenever we need bonding time to tell him to "go away." lol I am secure knowing that while we have our endless chats and he gets to email me 10 times a day from work, his priority is to bond K and I. He is forever telling me what a smart, capable woman she is and how blessed he is to have her. He tells me he could have many women...since he's soooo great..lala lala lala lala.......but all these years K has been the only one for him. Whenever he talks about the things he wants in a 2nd wife---strong morals, good values, healthy inside and out, strong faith, good lover---no matter how that list changes the 1st or that last thing he says is "a best friend for K."
Someone called me sweetie today and I felt great. I can talk to them for hours and still be bursting with things to say.
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